Sharing…
I was able to share my story about abstaining from alcohol with a new friend who is a recovering addict. He is 13 months sober, a few more than me.
I always feared sharing my story with a recovering addict as I feel my story isn't very moving. That my rock-bottom wasn't that rocky or that deep. The conversation we had helped me realize that its not about how far you've come, or how deep into it you were… Its about the fact you are on the same journey, with similar goals…
It was great to feel that he had the same interest in my progress as I had in his. I see his progress as an inspiration to me, a tougher journey but seeking the same Jesus…
Things in common
- Old friends don't understand: "I mean, you can have one beer right?"
- There is an incredible amount of things to do that don't involve a bar/club
- Lost a lot of "friends": Drinking was a huge reason they were around you
- Found truer friends: Those who stuck by you, those who rose up to be at your side
- Can't do it alone: He had people in his sober houses to walk with… I had my friends who stuck by me to keep me in line
I am sure there are many more, these were a few I noticed in a short dinner conversation. Looking forward to learning more about his story. I truly belive it will make my journey easier.
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